Tuesday, February 5, 2019

Touching the Third Rail

I had a bunch of other stuff I was going to write about but the lingering story about Virginia governor Ralph Northam has me in a stew.

First of all, the story is all over the map. Is it him? Is it not? Is it not, but he appeared in blackface at some other point?

His med school roommate doesn’t think it’s him at all, per USA Today.

The Governor’s ever-changing story/apology is not filling anyone with confidence or forgiveness.

Now, I agree that appearing in a picture like that is pretty loathsome. It’s not something I would have done in 1984 (when I was one year out of college). (I did plenty of other offensive stuff.)

It bothers me that we're trying to end someone’s career for doing something culturally insensitive thirty-five years ago, that wasn’t widely perceived as culturally insensitive at the time. Do you know how to tell it was a culturally insensitive time? Because they put a photo like that in the goddamn high school yearbook!

You can’t judge 35-year-old actions by the standards that apply today. That’s not a fair beef. If that was a picture from last year, or three years ago, or ten years ago, I’d also join the chorus calling for his resignation.

Was the action stupid? Absolutely. White-privileged? Absolutely.

But Jesus Christ, we all did stupid shit in the 80s. I remember my college self and my friends as desperately trying to break conventions and be as irreverent as we could. Our knowledge of the world was a mile wide and an inch deep. We just wanted to stick it any public convention that was standing in the way of our having fun.

Shortly after 1984, Sam Kinison and Andrew “Dice” Clay set the landscape on fire with their outrageous and offensive stand-up comedy shows and albums. It’s just the way things were back then.

My friends and I rarely thought about race. In fact, out in the sticks where I grew up, we were pretty isolated from any other cultures, aside from a smattering of Mexicans. We told jokes that would be offensive to pretty much every ethnic category, but we didn’t mean anything by it. They were just jokes.

To us.

In our early 20s, we were not yet fully developed people. I would hate to be judged today by the things I did when I was a boy.

For instance, I used to have a rebel flag. My dad brought it home for me from the Atlanta airport. I had it tacked up in our barn where we partied, and then on my apartment wall when I moved out. To me, all it meant was Lynyrd Skynyrd, The Charlie Daniels Band, and southern rock. That was it.

I know it’s in the background of some old pictures laying around in dusty desk drawers and I’m disturbed to think that if one of those went public, it would probably disqualify me from holding for public office today. All because I loved “Gimme Three Steps,” and the sound of a southern drawl.

Thirty-five years is a lot of time to grow up. You learn more about the world and about other people who aren’t like you. You mature. You empathize. And the culture changes to become more inclusive.

When judging Governor Northam’s situation, I think the important thing to know is who the guy is now and what he is trying to accomplish. We have outright racists in government, saying offensive things and pushing racist policies today. Those are far more important targets for our cultural wrath.

Republicans never kick their own people out over stuff like this. They just demand that we do, then laugh as we follow through while they just consolidate their power.

If we continue down this path, who are we going to get to run for office? The talent pool of good candidates for top (or lower) government offices is thin enough as it is, without requiring that they have to have been perfect throughout their entire lives. And not just perfect at the time; perfect in retrospect.

And what about 30 years from now? What kind of stupid shit are we doing now that’s going to be offensive then? (Besides wearing MAGA hats.) Maybe in 30 years, we’ll have decided that staring at your phone while in the presence of others is a high insult.

If that happens, the robots will have to govern themselves.

In this country, we prize the ability to learn and grow. Governor Northam should apologize and take ownership of whatever it was he did in 1984, photographed or not. And then we should judge him by his actions as governor, not for failing to live up to standards that didn’t exist yet.
DVD Director’s Commentary: I have no actual plans to run for office. I’m just sayin… the flag thing would be a problem if I did. It’s not like I’m bulletproof like Mitch McConnell.

6 comments:

  1. Oh boy this one gets me. I HATE that this guy did this. (nothram) He was a good governor thus far. A couple days before this went down he took a lot of heat and protesters about late term abortions. His point being if a woman must have one for some reason it should be allowed and we should not tell a woman what to do with her body. Now whether you agree or not with this, the fact that he stood up with his principles in tact and said what he wanted and not what everyone else wanted him to say I applauded. Then 2 days later--Boom this. Coincidence? I am not a conspiracy theory person but I think if he had skipped this event or said no to all abortions this never would have seen the light of day.
    And my rant on it all is this - if you don't believe in abortions don't get one. I don't believe in owning guns, I have none. I also don't believe in organized religion so should I take down all churches? T

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    1. I'm sure his position on abortion sent the anti-choice brigade running to find some dirt on the guy.

      I'm with you on the abortion issue. It's a decision for a woman and her doctor. Everyone else, (especially MEN who aren't married to the woman in question) should butt out. It's really a heinous way of forcing one person's morality on someone else, with a lifetime of consequences.

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  2. I can remember 1984 (I would have been 24 that year). Everybody back then knew that blackface, and even more a KKK outfit, were grossly racist and offensive. I said and believed some embarrassing stuff too when I was that age, but I would never have come within light-years of being in such a photo or allowing it to represent me. These are certainly not "standards that didn't exist yet". Even then that photo would have been considered shockingly racist. Nobody is saying "everybody has to have always been perfect". Like Franken, this is a rare (for a Democrat) case of gross, extreme behavior.

    Northam may indeed be a changed man, but if so, he needs to explain how and why his attitudes changed, and make it convincing. Otherwise he can never have the confidence of the non-white part of his state's population. If "it was no big deal at the time" is the best he can come up with, he needs to resign. We can't allow ourselves to sound like the Republicans do when they make these excuses for people like Kavanaugh.

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    1. Maybe I was just too isolated out in the country. I knew blackface wasn't something that was done anymore, but I would have had no idea how taboo it was. I don't think it really hit me until 1993 when Ted Danson wore blackface at a Friar's roast and everything blew up.

      As for the Klan robe, that's a whole different story. Never would have touched that with a ten-foot pole. I probably should have mentioned that earlier.

      I agree that he needs to come up with a coherent explanation because what's come out thus far has been a train wreck.

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    2. Were you in the South in 1984? I was at UGA in 84, and I guarantee there was similar things going on there, I just don't think it would have been in a yearbook

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    3. I was in a small, rural corner of northeast Ohio.

      The yearbook is the key for me. If it was such a taboo, how did it show up in a yearbook (which I assume had a faculty adviser)? That tells me it was NBD in that place at that time.

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