Thursday, January 3, 2013

Saint Ray

The heck with the Physcyl Clyff deal, the biggest news in Baltimore this week is that Ravens’ linebacker Ray Lewis is retiring.  As if this weekend’s playoff game against the Colts wasn't enough, this town is going absolutely apeshit in anticipation of Ray-Ray’s last dance.

If you've been here before, you know the antipathy I have towards the Ratbirds and their purple-swathed fans.  So let me say this right off: I acknowledge that Lewis is a premier linebacker, an all-time great, and will have a rightful place in the Hall of Fame.  And I can’t stand him… or more accurately, I can’t stand how the locals willfully avert their gaze from his felonious past to provide an unlimited supply of helium for his zeppelin-sized ego.

Director’s DVD Commentary: How funny would it sound if everyone in the stadium took a snort of helium before cheering?  It would be like a football game in Oz.

Seriously, could this guy possibly be any more full of himself?  Is there anyone else in the league that makes such a spectacle of himself just by coming out onto the field during introductions?

If I was a Rattie fan, I’d be embarrassed, but they all talk about how they’ll miss his pre-game “dance.”

Now I’ll admit that I used to kind of like it a few years back, when the Steelers’ Joey Porter would tuck his jersey up under the bottom of his shoulder pads before during warm-ups and stalk up and down the 50-yard line with his cheese-grater abs exposed.  He’d glower at the other team, talking smack and trying to get someone to take the bait.  That was badass.

But a pre-game dance?  Seriously?  A fucking dance?  There’s no dancing in football!  At least not without making a play or something first.  Then you might as well hop, skip and jump, and pound your chest because everyone else does it too.

But it’s not really even Ray that bugs me as much as it is the fans and their blinding hero worship.  It bugs me that they give their guy a free pass on a major violent crime, yet they continue to throw slurs about the rough time my guy had a few years back.  Yes, this comes down to a compare and contrast of Ray Lewis versus Ben Roethlisberger.

If you’re not familiar with the case histories, let me give you a quick summary.

Ray: Convicted of obstruction of justice (to a double murder)

At the 1999 Super Bowl in Atlanta, two hangers-on to Ray’s posse got into a dust-up with two “other guys.”  Next thing you know, the two “other guys” were stabbed to death.  The two-hangers on escaped with Ray’s posse into his limo and were whisked away.  Somewhere along the way, they disappeared the knife(s) and Ray’s bloodied white fur coat, neither of which have ever been found.

Ray could have been a stand-up guy and showed some character, but under police questioning he denied any involvement at all, while lying to the police to send the investigation in another direction.  Eventually, enough of the truth came out that Ray was charged with Obstruction of Justice, to which he pled guilty and served two months’ in prison. 
"Where's the knife, Ray?"

He also testified against the two alleged killers, but with his credibility damaged, they were acquitted.   To date, the murders are technically “unsolved.”  But much like the OJ case, everyone knows what happened.

Ben: Convicted of nothing, charged with nothing (but general douche-baggery)

There were two events, really.  The first one is still pending.  Ben had sex with a hotel employee who came up in his Vegas hotel room.  According to her friends, she excitedly bragged about it the next day, but a year later, she claimed she was raped.  The civil suit (there were never any charges filed) has been kicked around and delayed over the last few years.  The smart play would be to settle just to make it go away, but Ben has refused so far, maintaining that the encounter was completely consensual. 

The “big” event was the thing in Georgia, where Ben was out at a college bar and had some kind of sexual encounter with a student in the restroom.  The girl was really drunk, possibly on some of the shots Ben was buying for “all his bitches.” (His words.)

Whether the girl went in there willingly or not has never been proved.  In her initial statement to the police, she never reported any use of force… not until going back and talking with her sorority sisters.  Then, she and her girlfriends all told an identical new story to the police.  (I read the police reports, (and so can you), on theSmokingGun.com.)

The prosecutor, who was dying to nail Ben’s pelt up over his mantelpiece, was unable to secure enough credible evidence to press even a single charge.

The reactions to both events were wildly different.  The people in Baltimore refused to believe a single word about Ray’s involvement.  Even after he pled out, they were convinced it was a frame job by the prosecutor, the police, and probably the referees too.  Outside the Beltway he was a pariah, in fact after being named the MVP of Super Bowl XXXV, he was refused the iconic “I’m going Disneyworld” ad.  His name was toxic, but at home he remained the conquering hero.

After Ben’s ordeal in Georgia, I saw a poll in the Pittsburgh Post Gazette that showed over 40% of the respondents wanted him cut from the team!  (The rest of the responses were divided between trading and suspending him.)  People burned their #7 game jerseys.  Steeler fans were seriously PISSED over him sullying the (team owner) Rooney’s and team’s name. 

I was one of them.  I had a Big Ben t-shirt that I was thiiiiis close to tossing out.  I’d heard tales of his rampant douche-baggery around Pittsburgh, like acting like a spoiled, entitled brat while out in public, and brushing off any fans but the young chickies, so he was never a personal favorite of mine.  But franchise QBs don’t come easily so I didn't think cutting him was the answer, especially with nothing actually proven.  It’s not illegal to be an asshole.  I wanted to see what he was going to do with the rest of his career because he sure dug himself an awfully big hole.

It took some major steps on Ben’s part to even start to win back the fans, especially the female fans.  (Pittsburgh has the highest percentage of female fans in the NFL, as gauged by merch sales.  Fact.  My Pittsburgh blog sisters will have to chime in to let me know if they've forgiven him or if they ever can.) 

Personally, I’ll hand it to him that he got his ass out of the bars, (especially college bars), got married, settled down and recently became a father.  He also became a better leader and teammate in the locker room and more cooperative with the media.

After a big loss, he always steps up and accepts the blame, whether it’s really his or not.  He never shirks his responsibility as a team leader.  Ray, on the other hand, disappears immediately after a big loss, especially if it’s on account of the defense.  Just too brooding and tortured to step up to the mic, right?  Or if he does comment, it’s usually to blame the refs, the schedule or the league.  One time, he actually blamed the Steelers for picking on their rookie cornerbacks.  (As if that’s not exactly what every QB in the league has done since the dawn of time...)

So on to my real point…  Ratbird fans here can’t get enough of slamming Big Ben.  I know he plays for the rival team so I expect abuse, but keep the focus on the field, huh?  Every time it’s Steelers/Ravens Week, it’s “Rapistberger” this and “pervert” that… They totally look past their guy, whose shady past left a couple of guys, who last time I checked, are still fuckin’ dead, to throw stones at another guy, who was never charged with anything but acting like a dick.

Is it too much to ask for a little self-awareness?  It’s like when someone who’s a member of a traditionally persecuted minority, throwing intolerant slurs at some other minority.   You’d think they’d know better, right?  You’d think they’d know from experience.

Not here.  So from now until the end of the season, it will be All Ray, All the Time.  People will campaign for naming him the greatest inside linebacker ever and tell and retell stories of his exploits.  If he’s not named to the Hall of Fame in a unanimous vote, they’ll claim league bias.

Ben Roethlisberger is the criminal here in Baltimore, as Ray Lewis goes dancing into a luxurious retirement.  Good riddance. 

Meanwhile, two families still grieve over dead sons, whose murderers were never brought to justice.

7 comments:

  1. Time heals all (or most, anyway) wounds, particularly when there is winning involved. If Big Ben had tanked after that Georgia incident, then people would be a lot less forgiving. I was pretty angry after it all went down and at the time, I would have not been sorry to see him go. But I was not ready to crucify him as much as so many others, for the reasons you more or less said. I hate to say that I have moved on, but I guess I have because he (seems to have) turned his life around.

    As for Ray Lewis, I imagine if he were a Steeler, the fans would be more forgiving. Not as forgiving as the Ratbirds fans, however. I heard some guy from Baltimore on the Fan this morning saying RL had good character or something like that. When Ron Cook brought up the obstruction of justice-murder thing, the caller said, "Besides that." Sheesh.

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    1. That’s the thing… I don’t begrudge either man the opportunity to turn their lives around, and both seem to have done that. I just resent the “selective condemnation” that I hear all over the Baltimore media and in public. That guy on the radio is exactly representative of the locals here. “Except the time he covered up a double murder, he’s a stand-up guy.”

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  2. Weren't those girls(????) under age also,,, not to say Big Ben wasn't letting LITTLE BEN lead the thought process (guys who hasn't)not that this is right but take a little responsibility and who has not had any conviction in a Court of Law ????? Great Player .... Yes Convicted by LAW ??? YES...... Great Player .... Yes NO CONVICTIONS ..... On field merits Hall of Fame .. OFF Field Double case of DOUCHEBAGERY at the least !!!!!

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    1. The under-age part should have been a non-issue, because they were out drinking in bars. It’s a reasonable assumption that they were of legal age. Still, he was 27 and shouldn’t have been hanging around in college bars.

      In reading the police reports, it’s clear that Ben was acting like a 5-alarm asshole, no argument here. His behavior was deplorable, and most of Pittsburgh called him out on it, unlike in Baltimore, where Ray’s transgressions were denied, ignored and instantly forgotten.

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  3. Never been a fan of Ben due to his past. But I really don't think he forceably raped anyone. Did he take advantage of his celebrity and inebriated girls/women? Absolutely. He was immature and stupid. Not defending it, but if NFL players were arrested for hooking up or taking advantage of drunk groupies, they'd have trouble fielding teams on Sunday. NFL is not much different from rock stars on that count. Again, not excusing it. He was stupid to insist on riding motorcycles, too. I'm not defending him, and still can't really root for the guy. But I give him kudos for growing up and at least trying to be a better person. Hell, part of me is glad that I didn't have millions of dollars and celebrity at age 25. I was stupid then and would have done some pretty stupid shit.

    But covering up a murder is on a different level. It's amazing how corporations all line up for Ray to endorse their drink/video game/snuggies. While Ben can't endorse shit.

    Yes, I said the Ray Lewis snuggie: http://goo.gl/Zrcfl

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    1. I agree with every word you wrote.

      And if I had millions of dollars on hand when I was in my 20s, I can’t even begin to imagine the trouble I’d have found. As I said in one of my lottery posts, “All those zeroes can make you crazy.”

      It’s easy for we over-the-hillers to pass judgment on young rich punks, as we forget what it was like to be bulletproof.

      He’s certainly not my favorite player, but I root for the Steelers. I want him to get the job done and I’m glad when he does; pissed when he doesn’t. And the only QB that gets less referee protection than Ben is Vick. Ben gets the living crap beat out of him after the pass is gone, but you never see a late hit call.

      But you still won’t catch me in a #7 jersey.

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  4. You are such the rapist apologist.

    j/k

    But I love "Rapistberger".

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